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The Dating Game

The Dating Game

The Dating Game

Dir. Violet Du Feng
90 min

Men outnumber women in China, the unintended result of the one-child policy, and in a country where loneliness isn’t just painful but downright frowned upon, three desperate men turn to a dating coach to find wives. Meet Hao, who’s “strategic deception” helps men who don’t seem to measure up to society’s high standards. But while it may result in finding partners, will their lies undermine true love?

Hao is a tough customer, a successful dating coach who knows how to bring two people together. Less a matchmaker than a man who helps shape personality so these sad souls can succeed on their own, he refuses to back down when a student pushes back and wants to just be himself. Wen, Hao’s wife, runs her own camp for women and tries to help her charges navigate a world of less-than-honest men… some of whom have come from Hao’s camp. Violet Du Feng’s documentary is delightful, insightful, and heartbreaking in equal measure.

Film Details

Program: SEE ALL MSPIFF44 FILMS
Release Year: 2025
Runtime: 90 min
Country/Region: USA, United Kingdom, Norway, China
Language: Mandarin Chinese
Print Source: Cinetic Media
Tags: Asian Frontiers, Comedy, Documentary, Documentary Feature, Romance, Women Directors

Cast/Crew

Director: Violet Du Feng
Producer: James Costa, Violet Du Feng, Mette Cheng Munthe Kaas, Joanna Natasegara
Cinematographer: Wei Gao
Editor: John Farbrother
Composer: Chad Cannon

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